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How did I get my almost two year old to be such a good eater?

23 Feb

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How did I get him to be such a good eater?

My friend Pricscilla asked me my opinion on dealing with kids who are picky eaters. I feel I nipped this in the bud fairly early as I let him taste almost everything I was eating by age one. I’ve even puréed a BMT Subway sandwich with pickles and peppers for his mesh teether. This might not be the route you’ve taken, but here is how I encourage healthy eating now:

Grocery shopping. Most parents avoid taking kids to the grocery store at all costs. I don’t really have a choice most of the time. My husband works late often and on Saturdays. Today I let Braden walk in the grocery store instead of sit in the stroller and I let him help me find the things on our list. He finds distractions along the way- anything brightly colored and within reach, really. We have to remember as parents that marketing execs make packaged foods bright and shiny, because it stimulates excitement in our brains, especially for kids. It looks fun, like a toy. Among the things he asked for were Oreos, chocolate bars, a big squishy ball, an 8 pack of batteries, a bag of jelly beans, beef jerky, a dish sponge, etc. He has no idea why he wants it, he just likes the way it looks. He asked me to buy several things he saw with “strawberry” on the front, including jelly and pop-tarts. We compromised by getting strawberry yogurt. The fresh strawberries looked like they’d seen better days. He also picked himself out a grapefruit, which I let him buy. Good news- he liked it! Kids keep asking just to see what they can have. It’s exciting for them to pick out foods. Kids are curious by nature and letting them help pick things out encourages them to eat healthy. I also let him help me cook whenever possible.

No means no. Curiosity isn’t reserved just for healthy foods, unfortunately. When we were at the checkout he picked up every single item in the candy display and was told “no” to each one. People around me say things like, “looks like you have your hands full.” I laugh because I think he’s like any normal kid in the store. I absolutely get tired of saying “no,” but I stand my ground even through a tantrum. And at his age, by the time you get home he will have forgotten the 40 things you didn’t let him buy. If you even let one tantrum change a “no” to a “yes” I can guarantee you will see “Tantrum: part two” on your next trip 😉

Tips, tricks, and tests. Kids need to be given a few healthy choices, but not unlimited choices. They don’t have to eat everything on their plate, but I’m still going to put on the plate. For some children the more you insist, the less inclined they are to eat it. If they refuse to eat one healthy meal, they will just be hungrier for the next, as long as you don’t offer snacks after an un-eaten meal. You can even offer the same meal a second time when they say they’re hungry, but when I do, I always have a backup plan. Let’s be honest, who wants to eat reheated eggs and hash browns? My friend Jacquelyn has a three year old and when she says she’s hungry Jacquelyn asks her if she wants a boiled egg. If she says yes, then she’s actually hungry and not just bored. Another good trick I use is one I learned from my Dad- a tactic that had us begging to eat spinach as kids. I make only one plate for myself and then he inevitably wants a bite. I pretend like its so good that I am sharing reluctantly. When I control the fork he can’t pick out the tiny pieces of spinach from the spaghetti sauce. Speaking of sauce, sauce makes everything better so if a child doesn’t like something, you can always add a small amount of sauce. Spinach dip is a big hit around here 🙂

Limitations. Some foods are also distractions from healthier foods. When a child acquires a preference for a food like chicken nuggets, graham crackers, ketchup, bananas, etc, it can reduce their desire for other foods which are necessary for a balanced diet. Bananas, and to a lesser extent now, crackers, seem to be his first choice. While not necessarily unhealthy in moderation, a diet of only crackers and bananas is not good. I take one of two routes when he becomes fixated on a food. The less restrictive route, which I have established for things like bananas, is a daily allotment. Braden is allowed only one half of a banana per day. If it were his choice he would eat three bananas a day. After he has the amount of something he is allowed and asks for more, I remind him that he already had some, he can have more tomorrow, and I suggest something else.

Take charge! There are some things that I have gone on strike about, like Ketchup and Ritz, because they offer little nutrition, and frankly, they should not be a measurable percentage of his diet. I let him have ketchup on his eggs once and every time he would see eggs he would say, “ketchup.” I threw the ketchup away and that was the end of the story. We do sometimes have ketchup, but I am watchful that we don’t have it more than once a week. Kids need rules. Kids even LIKE rules, so if you have a picky eater on your hands, don’t give up!

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Italian Turkey Meatballs

18 Oct

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Ingredients
1 lb ground turkey
1 egg
1 tsp basil
1 tsp oregano
1 tsp salt
1/2 tsp pepper
1/2 tsp thyme
1/4 tsp cayenne pepper

Mix all ingredients together. Cook in a skillet on medium for 15 to 20 minutes or until cooked through. They taste great with a combo of paleo ketchup and worcestershire sauce. I use them in place of chicken nuggets for my toddler.

Nut N’ Honey Balls

17 Oct

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I try not to make too many paleo treats, but we needed something to take to a dessert exchange.

18 oz sunbutter
8 oz finely shredded coconut
4 oz finely shredded coconut
6 Tbsp raw honey

Mix honey and sunbutter before adding 8 oz coconut. Form into one inch balls. Drop them in a bowl with the remaining 4 oz of coconut and shake them to coat in groups of four or five. They are best served chilled. Simple and kids loooove them!

Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough Balls

2 Sep

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2 Tbsp cashew butter
2 Tbsp your choice of chocolate chips or cocoa powder
tsp honey
1/4 tsp vanilla
pinch baking soda
pinch salt
1/4 cup finely shredded coconut

Mix vanilla, salt, baking soda, and honey together. Mix in cashew butter and chocolate chips. Shape into balls and roll in coconut to maintain shape. Refrigerate.

A quick note that reminds me of my Grandma. Black walnuts are a good addition to this recipe. Sub 1 Tbsp chocolate chips for 1 Tbsp walnuts.

Also, if you find the dough too wet add shredded coconut into the dough. If you find it’s too dry dip your fingers in coconut oil and incorporate into the dough.

Oatmeal Raisin Cookie Dough Balls

28 Aug

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These are for my husband!

2 Tbsp cashew butter
2 Tbsp raisins
1 tsp honey
pinch baking soda
1/4 tsp vanilla extract
1/4 tsp cinnamon
pinch salt
1/4 cup finely shredded coconut

Mix cinnamon, vanilla, baking soda, salt and honey. Add cashew butter followed by raisins. Roll into balls and roll in coconut to preserve shape. If the dough seems to dry dip your fingers in coconut oil and incorporate. If it seems too wet add coconut shreds into the dough. Refrigerate.

Cashew Raisin Balls

25 Aug

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1/2 cup creamy cashew butter
1 Tbsp raw honey
1/4 cup raisins or died strawberries
1/2 cup fine shredded coconut for mixing
1/2 cup fine shredded coconut for rolling

Mix cashew butter and honey in a bowl. Stir in raisins then 1/2 cup coconut. Spread the other half cup of coconut out on a plate, counter, or cutting board. Roll mixture into balls and then press and roll balls in coconut. Keep refrigerated. These are great take along snacks for kids, but you will probably have to cut them off after a few because they taste so good that they just keep eating! The other thing that’s great about these is you don’t even have to cook them.